When Dating...Do You Get Back What You Give Off?!...
So, I've been doing a lot of thinking...Just about the dynamics of dating and why so many great women are complaining that they're not getting what they want out of their dating experiences. I myself wonder sometimes..What could us women be doing wrong that's not leading us to Dating Bliss...hmmm...Then I had to ask all the Fab girls I know and ask myself...Is there something us ladies are giving off to men that's attracting the same B.S over and over again?! After talking with the girls and a few glasses of wine later ;) ...We all started analyzing our behavior when dating and the common thread problems that seem to follow us through most of our dating experiences. Although, it would be easy just to blame the men for our issues ( Because sometimes it really does come down to choosing the wrong type of men :/ ).. We knew we still needed to be open minded and take a real good look at ourselves!...Because every smart girl knows a man can only do to you...What you allow him to do! ... So, then it made us ask ourselves..What message are we sending to men?! Are we coming across Desperate for Love?!..Easy?!..Insecure?! Or even Needy?! and if so Ladies...This is a major problem! :/ Us as Single Women need to be at our best mentally, physically and emotionally as individuals before we can even consider dating! The Only Message we need to send to men..Is that we are Confident, Happy with Self, and Possibly Available for dating...But never Available for the B.S! :) The only way we can honestly get this message across is if we are truly living by it! So, my Fellow Single Ladies... make sure you are 100% right with yourself..Knowing your worth, feeling good about yourself as an individual whether you are in a relationship or not...and most of all truly knowing what you are looking for when dating...Because what you give off when first meeting a man will definitely define the direction of the relationship! ...So please choose your message wisely! ;) JM
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