Monday, October 11, 2010

It Was Good...Until It Wasn't!!!

Ladies, have you Ever been in a Situation with a Guy where Everything was Going Good...Until It Wasn't!! The Two of you were Going on Dates, Talking on the Phone, Really Getting to Know One Another. You've Gotten Pass the Stage of Wondering... If he's Going to just Hit and Run! (Or So You Think!).... You Feel like you're at a Pretty Good Place with your Dude...aaaaaannnnnd Thheeeeennnn  All of a Sudden you Weren't!! He Slowly Stopped Calling, Not Really Asking to See You As Much, and Now you Feel like You Barely Know the Guy... "I Mean, Did We Even Really Date?! " ...Is Running through your Mind Constantly.  Now you're Questioning Everything you Once Knew to be a Good Start to a Relationship! Normally, I Would Say... Sounds like Someone's Just Not That Into You!! But, I've been Doing My Research and it's Happening to an Astounding Amount of Women!! I Mean... Fabulous, Pretty, Smart, Sexy Woman!!!  Could it be that Men Lose Interest in Women that Easily because There's a New Flavor Introduced Everyday like Ice Cream! ...and What Ever Happened to a Man Letting you Know that he Decided to Exit the Building!!!  Has Silence Become the New Way of Saying its Over?!  What Happened to Closure?! Hmmmm... Let me Guess?!... Men Want to leave their Options Open!!  So, Ending it Would be Too Permanent! I'm Going to Further Investigate this Situation Ladies!...But in the Meantime Don't let a Man's Sudden Lack of Interest make You Question Your Fabulousness :)
And Ladies, If you Tried to Communicate with the Guy you were Seeing and he Avoids the Discussion...Pleeeeaaassse Don't Get So Caught up in Getting an Explanation from Him...That You Start Calling His Phone Like a Psycho Path!! When you Really think about it... The Reason He Has Moved On Doesn't Really Change the Fact that He Has Moved On...The Bottom Line Is, He Had a Change of Heart and Made a Decision to Not Tell you that He Wants to go in Another Direction!! But ...I Can Imagine How This Type of Behavior on His Part Can Drive Your Mind Crazy!!! I Can't Tell You the Details of Why He had a Change of Heart, But If Your Curiosity is there.... 
Here are Some of the Reason's Why Men Will Just Move on Without Much of An Explanation

1.  He Doesn't Want to Hurt Your Feelings
2.  He Doesn't Have the Balls to Tell You...( What a Loser!)
3.  He Lost Some Interest and Might be Focusing On a New Single Girl...But Feels He Might Want to Revisit the Situation with You at Some Point.... So He Puts You on the Back Burner while He Pursues other Options
4.  He Really Didn't Feel what the Two of You Had was Serious Enough to Give a Goodbye Speech...
5.  He's Not that Good at Communicating His Feelings, So Silence is the More Comfortable Route for Him

6 comments:

Anonymous said...

OMG....this post was so well put and most of all sooooooo true!!! thank you for always talking about "real" issues that all of girls are always thinking!!! please keep these good reads coming!!!

J. Dinero said...

Heyyy Thank u Soooo Much For Your Feed Back!! And I will definitely Keep it Coming!!! xoxo :)

Anonymous said...

You were right on point with this story Jazz, some men are so uuuuuurgh! This happened to me once and i was like huh?? what??..LOL crazy times!!

Tamz,
p.s: keep em coming doll face!!

J. Dinero said...

Hey Tamz! Thanx!! And Giiiirl It Happens to the Best of Us! ;) It's So Uncool for Men To Do this! But Its Happening... So Us Single Girls Have to Be Prepared!! And Yes Love I Will keep it Coming!! xoxo Muahs!! :)

Anonymous said...

i disappear because women give it up quick... real quick. i really try not to hold it against them. its not their fault. it probably has to do with my devilish good looks and my boyish charm. ; )

-young clooney

J. Dinero said...

Hey Young Clooney...Thanx For sharing your POV...It's Always good to know how Men feel and Think in regards to these topics!! Thanx so much!!

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