Monday, November 8, 2010

When The Hunter Is Being Hunted!!

Why So Many Men Stopped Pursuing and Courting Women

Hunter A: Hey Man, Why Don't You Have On Your Hunting Gear?! We're Suppose To Go Hunting Today!...We're Not Going To Catch Any Deer If We Don't Go Out And Get it!!

Hunter B: Oh No, I Don't Really Have The Desire to Hunt Anymore...Do You See All the Deer?! They're So Accessible! ...It's No Fun Anymore... There's No Challenge In Chasing Deer that Doesn't Run!!


Ladies!!!! There's a Dating Epidemic!!!...That we need to be Aware of and Address!! Men Are Not Pursuing Women the Way they use to! There has been a Major Role Reversal and Women are Now Pursuing Men!! I'm Not Saying there is Anything Wrong with a Woman Knowing what she Wants, But I do think that a Woman Should be a bit Elusive and let the Man Show his Interest and Put his Best Foot Forward. We all know that Men Love a Challenge! Why do you Think they sit in Front of the T.V All Day Playing Video Games Yelling at the Screen So Passionately!!! It's the Challenge of Winning!! If You are Interested in a Man, it's Okay to Give Signals that Allows him to know that you won't Reject him if he Approaches you, But if you Pursue a Man it Takes Away from the Initial Challenge of him Wondering if he will ever be Fortunate Enough to have a Woman like you! But, it Seems like a lot of Women are Getting Nervous about Landing a Good Guy (Which I Completely Understand!!).. But, Some Women are Running around like there's a Giuseppe Zanotti Sample Sale and there's Only One Pair of Shoes Left in their Size!!!....Ladies, Men See this Desperate Behavior in Us....and Guess what?!...They Are The One Pair of Giuseppe Stilettos that a Group of Aggressive Women are Fighting Over!...and Men are Loving Every Minute of it! Now with that being said, There is a Large Group of Women who do Believe in a Man Pursuing and Courting a Woman( Including Myself!) and we Feel like we are Getting the Bad End of the Deal because Men Think we are too High Maintenance since they have become Accustomed to Women Going after them and Not having as many Expectations. Men are now able to Multi-Date and Have so many Options without having to do much and a lot of Men are getting Lazy in their Efforts in Impressing and Courting a Woman. I Think if ALL Women had Higher Standards and Made Men Feel they Had to Earn Our Time and Attention..Men wouldn't have a Choice in how to Treat Us...Ladies Remember, Men Have as Many Options as we Give them!! So,They would Know they Had to Respect us and Take the Time out to Get to Know Us if that was our Standard...And that's when Men will Step up and Do the Nice and Thoughtful things that All Women Desire. But, Because so many Women are having Sex Fast and Not Really Setting Standards...It's Changing the Dynamics of the Dating Scene and Boy! Are the Men Benefiting From This!!! ... So, I Say All of this to Say, Let's Try to Set the Bar on How We Behave and Interact with Men, How We Expect to be Treated By Men and How we Will Go about Getting a Man!...Because I'm a Strong Believer that If a Man Is interested in You, He will Pursue You! Men are Natural Born Hunters...So, Lets Give them a Bit of a Challenge and Lets Be a Bit of a Chase! ;)

P.S Once He Pursues You and the Two of You are Dating...Lets Not Forget Our Standards!!! :)

2 comments:

Anonymous said...

I agree. It's the ladies that changed the game. its almost like men don't have to do anything but watch...

J. Dinero said...

Yess! Exactly!! ;)

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