When You Gotta Give Yourself Tough Love and Move On!!
Going Into 2011 Right!!
Sometimes it's really hard to move on from a dating situation because you want it to work so bad!.. Although, you know it's not the best thing for you, you can't seem to walk away! The more he rejects you the more you want to attempt to make it work or try to get to the bottom of why he's not that into you anymore.. You feel yourself going into a downward spiral emotionally over the rejection!!... This is when it's time for you to pull it together and make a commitment to yourself about what you will and will not allow yourself to go through emotionally for the love or attention of a man... Its time for some Tough Love!.... Contract Please!!
Dear Me,
The reason why you're going to move forward from this situation is because its bringing too much emotional and mental confusion. Since you've been dealing with this person you have allowed him to consume your mind. You spend way too much time trying to figure him out, ways to impress him and ways to get his attention..It shouldn't be this hard!! Don't allow someone's lack of interest make you question your worth, beauty, and capabilities of having a good man. Do not allow the potential of what you think something "Could Be" make you feel like you have to hang in there or chase a man so that you don't miss out on an "Opportunity". Remember, your blessings are "God Given" and no one can take that away from you! If something is meant to be...it will be! So with that being said...You will move forward...
* You will not chase him anymore
* You will not make him a daily project to focus on
* You will not be depressed over him because things didn't work
* You will accept that he's just not that into you...and that's o.k! :)
* You will not talk about this situation Allll Day with your girlfriends
* You will still have a positive attitude towards future dating
* And you will never again compromise your values, personality, or who you are as a person to win a man ...He needs to win you...Because you are the Prize! :)
PRINT, SIGN AND BELIEVE!! :)
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