Saturday, October 16, 2010

Insecure Single Girl...Stays Single!

I Know that a Breakup can make you Feel Really Insecure. You Question Whether or Not you're Still as Desirable to Men, you Look in the Mirror and Wonder if you should Lose Weight or if you have what it takes to Really be Apart of the Dating Scene. A Breakup can make the Most Confident Girl Question her Worth!  This is a Normal Phase to go through, But this can Become a Problem if you Start to Obsess over your Flaws. No one is Perfect, We all have things that we Wish we could Change about Ourselves. You Need to Love All of you and Honestly Speaking, that's the Only way Someone Else Can! If you're Constantly Pointing out your Insecurities, you will become Less Desirable. No Man wants to be around a Woman who Constantly needs Reassurance that she's Beautiful or Desirable. Men are Attracted to Women that know their Worth and Exude Confidence.  As Women, We will Always have those Days where we just Don't Feel Hot! If you Can't get yourself out of the Dumps call a Girlfriend, She'll Remind you how Great you Really are until you Come Back to your Senses!! Beautiful Women come in all Shapes and Sizes. There's a Million Men out there that will Appreciate and Be Happy to Have You, But First You Have to Be Happy to Be You!!

Here's a Couple Of Strategies to Use When Feeling a Little Down About Yourself

1. Go to the Mirror and Talk to Yourself... Point Out Everything About Yourself that you DO LOVE!!...And Yes...Say it Out Loud!!...You Need to Hear it!
2. Get Dressed Up and Go Out with Girlfriends...Have a Good Time, Celebrate Who You Are! ;)
3. Go to the Gym or Go for a Run...A Good Workout will Make You Feel Productive and Better About Yourself
4. Read A Good Book About Self Improvement..It Helps you to Put Your Thoughts in Perspective and You will Learn How to Set Realistic Goals to Better Yourself
5. Pamper Yourself...A Little Spa Treatment or Treat Yourself to Something Nice! It'll Remind You of The Divalicious Sexy Fab Girl You Truly are! ;)

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