DEAR JAZZ,
I'VE BEEN DATING THIS GUY FOR ABOUT A YEAR. WE NEVER ESTABLISHED TITLES, BUT WHENEVER THINGS ARE GOING GOOD BETWEEN US HE ACKNOWLEDGES ME AS HIS GIRLFRIEND, BUT AS SOON AS WE GET INTO AN ARGUMENT AND I TRY TO ADDRESS HIM ABOUT SOMETHING HE DID WRONG HE TELLS ME I CAN'T SAY ANYTHING TO HIM BECAUSE I'M NOT HIS GIRLFRIEND. ALTHOUGH I KNOW I'M NOT IT BOTHERS ME THAT HE THROWS IT IN MY FACE ONLY WHEN HE IS WRONG ABOUT SOMETHING. I FEEL LIKE HE GIVES AND TAKES THE GIRLFRIEND TITLE AWAY FROM ME AT HIS CONVENIENCE. WHAT SHOULD I DO ABOUT THIS
CONVENIENTLY NOT HIS GIRLFRIEND
Hey Conveniently Not His Girlfriend,
Giiiiirl...Either "GirlFriend" is your Title All of the Time or None of the Time! You Deserve More than A Fair Weather Boyfriend! And why does he get to Call all the Shots as far as your Position in the Relationship?! He's doing this to you because he Can! So, you have to Stop this Pattern he has Developed with you ASAP! The Next time he tries to tell you that you have No Say So because your Not his Girlfriend. Start acting like your Not his Girlfriend! Don't hang out with him as Much, Don't answer his calls all the time..Basically everything you do as his Girlfriend..Stop Doing!! He'll Start to Wonder why you're Acting Different and thats when you let him know that you Don't want the Title If he Thinks he can Give it and Take for his Convenience! Tell Him Don't Inconvenience you with His Indecisive Ways!..and When He sees that title No Longer Has Power over you...You'll See how Fast he'll be willing to give that Title to you for Good...And you'll Get Back to him at your Convenience..On whether or Not You Still want the Title! ;)
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