Single Girl Solo or Single Girl Sad...The Difference Between Being Alone And Lonely

You came into this World Alone, Unless of course you're a Twin! Even with being a Twin I'm sure you can Appreciate some Space.  We all should be able to Enjoy what we call "Me Time". Where you're your Own Best Company! Time to sort out your Thoughts, maybe watch a Movie at Home or just going to Starbuck's sipping your fave Frappachino while surfing the Net. This is Time Well Spent Alone..Everyone needs It!! This is what I would Describe as a Single Girl Solo... Yes, you still find time to go on Dates and Spend Time with Family and Friends, But you do take Pride in Enjoying some Time Alone. Now the Single Girl Sad is also sipping her Frappachino in Starbuck's, but she's feeling depressed.. Single Girl Sad is thinking "O.M.G  people will think I'm a Loser and that I Don't have any Friends!! " She Feels this way because she Doesn't really have that many Friends or Options to keep her Company.  Single Girl Sad Doesn't Appreciate Time spent Alone because it doesn't feel like it's her Choice. Therefore, it makes her Feel Lonely. Sometimes we Don't Realize that just because you're Alone doesn't necessarily mean you're Lonely.  Here are some Signs to Differentiate if You're Just Spending Some Time Alone or if You're Single Girl Lonely...


Single Girl Solo

#1. Someone Can call you and ask do you want to Hang Out, and Sometimes you Don't Go because you're Comfortable in your Space and you're Enjoying some Quiet Time at Home

#2. You want to go to the Movies, but no one is Available at that Time to go with you, so you Decide to catch a Movie by Yourself

#3.  You're Girlfriend is getting married, but you're not ready to bring a Date, so you Decide to go Alone... All your friends will be there anyway! 


Single Girl Sad

#1.  You want to Hang out, but you Stay at Home because you Don't have Anyone you can Call to Go Out with you


#2.  Something Exciting has happened for you, but you feel that you have No One to Share your Experience with


#3.  Your Best Friend is Your Pet and Your Pet knows most of the Details of what's going on in your Life!  hmmmmm....

* If you are a Single Girl Solo, Congrats!!... For knowing that you're your own Best Friend..You have a Balanced Life and You know that Time Alone is just as Valuable as Time Spent with Family, Friends, and Dating.  If You are Single Girl Sad, Now is the time to Change things Up!! You need to Get Out More and Socialize. You Don't have to have a Million Friends and Love Interest, But it's Important to Interact with People Daily. If you Don't have many Friends because you were so caught up in your Past Relationship, It might be a Great idea to join the Gym or other places where Socializing takes place. You'll be able to meet New People and have the Option to be in Company or Spend Quality Time Alone!