Once upon a time you were in a relationship with someone who you considered your other half. The two of you spent holidays together, decorated the home together, even had mutual friends that the two of you shared. I'm sure it was pure bliss..until it was over!! So, now the goal is to heal your broken heart, Get your mind right and to have a clear understanding of self. Sometimes you can be a little confused on who you are as an individual when you've been in a partnership with someone for so long. Have no fear, don't let the title "Single" Scare you because you were accustomed to being a "We". For you are now a Fabulous Single Girl!! There's a whole world of Exciting Opportunities and Exhilarating Experiences awaiting you! Here are some of the the Pros and Cons You Should be aware of as a Single Girl...Single Girl Pros
#1. Lots of Movies, Lots of Dinners, Lots of Compliments, Lots of Flowers, Lots of Hot Single Men Pursuing Hot Single You!
#2. You Can Multi-Date and Not Feel Guilty about it! This is your time to act like a kid in a Candy Store!! OH.... and Multi-Dating Doesn't Mean You Should Have Sex with Everyone You Date...Be Selective Ladies!!! You can offer Your Time to Whoever You Like....But Your Goodies are Not For Everyone...that's Your Candy!!! ;)
#3. More Fun with your Girlfriends!...Remember how your Ex complained that you went out with your girlfriends entirely too much! He was so annoying right?! Now You Can Have as Much Fun as You Want!!
#4. Now that you live Alone, You can walk around your home wearing your Fave Frumpy Jammies and not be Judged for it!
#5. Getting to Know Yourself Again and Understanding the New You!
#6. Now that you're No Longer Wrapped Up into your Ex, You have more Time to take up that New Hobby or Class you've Always been Interested in!
#7. Getting Dressed up and Reminding Yourself how Hot you really are!! and Letting Single Hot Guys Remind You Too!!! :)
#8. Doing Whateverrrrrrr Makes You Happy!!!
#9. Experimenting and trying New Things, Whether it be Sex, Hair Color or Traveling! You don't have to be Concerned about Approval!
#10. The Possibilities!!!
Single Girl Cons
#1. Bills and Responsibilities might seem a little Overwhelming...Now that you're on Your Own...You Will be Fine, You just have to be Patient and Adjust!
#2. You are now the Handyman, You have to lift Heavy boxes and Take Out the Garbage..I know it sucks!
#3. You might Feel Lonely at Times, No Cuddle Buddy some Nights
#4. Holidays can take you on an Emotional Roller Coaster...Memories from your Past Relationship can make you feel Really Sad...But We all know...Time Heals All Wounds!!
#5. Losing your Ex's friends...Yes, they were His Friends First...Not yours!!
#6. Not Having the Security of Consistent Emotional Support...This is when you lean on Family and Friends!
#7. You Might Start Feeling Overwhelmed about Looking Perfect all the Time, Now that you're Back on the Dating Scene... But, No One Is Perfect...So Lets Just Focus On Being the Best We Can Be!
#8. When the Dating Scene seems Disappointing and Options Don't Look So Great, it might make you Second Guess your Decision to be Single...Don't Let that make You Go Running Back to Your Ex!! Be Patient with the Process!!
#9. Not Every Guy You Meet is Going to Treat You the Way You Feel You Deserve to be Treated...I Know...Shock Factor!! But Ditch that Dude ASAP...and Don't Let a Couple Of A$$%*&#S Change Your Judgement of All Men!!
#10. Depending on How Long you've been off the Dating Scene, Dating can seem like a Foreign Language, it may take you Some Time to Adapt...Don't be Intimidated...You'll Be Speaking Dating Languages Fluently!!! ;)
Just Remember: Dating is Suppose to Be Fun!! It's a Period of Time Where You Can Really See What's Out There. There will be Some Good and Bad Experiences, But with all Experiences comes Knowledge!! Dating will Help you Figure Out what it is you really want from a Long Term Relationship, When your Ready. By the Time you're done Dating, You will not only have Amazing Single Girl Memories...But you will also know it's Mr. Right when You meet Him!!!
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