My Ex is on to the Next

Whether it was Your Idea or your Ex's Idea to call it Quits...Its Never Easy to See or Hear that your Ex is on with the Next!  There was a Time that he was the Love of Your Life!!! I'm sure you're Thinking..."How can he Possibly get Over me that Fast??!!!... or even Deeper...Love Someone Else??!! " This is the thing...You have to Always Remember...He is your Ex for a Reason!!!  If you know for a Fact that he Doesn't Add to Your Happiness and there's No Room for Reconciliation, You have to try your Best to be Mature about the Situation and say... " Hey, he's not the one for me, so i am Not Concerned!! "  Then you must Know and Believe that when the Time comes you will meet the Right Guy for You.  Don't Feel Jealous or Envious If your Ex happens to Find Happiness or Love Faster than You.  This is Not a Race!! Stay focused on Your Path in Life.. Don't ever let Someone Else's Happiness or Accomplishments make you Feel Less than or Insecure! You are a Fabulous Single Girl with all the Possibilities in the World...and if you're Mentally Caught Up with your Ex being on to the Next!!  How will You Ever be Able to see all the Opportunities that Await You!!


* So You Want Your Ex Back - Break Ups are Really Hard to deal with, it takes time to Get Over a Love. If you have Expressed to your Ex that you want to get Back Together and he is showing No Interest in Mending the Relationship.... You have to Respect and Accept his Decision. If you find out that your Ex is on with the Next, as much as it might Hurt your Feelings...this is the Harsh Reality of a Break Up. If you Feel that you are Emotionally Unstable because of your Break Up, this would be a Great Time to call on Family and Friends  for their Support. If the Situation is too much for Family and Friends to handle because they don't have the Experience to get you back to a Good Place Emotionally, you might want to Consider speaking with a Therapist. Please don't be alarmed by me suggesting this...if it makes you feel any better....Even Therapist have Therapist!!!

* But I'm Still Sleeping With My Ex - So, You're No Longer in a Committed Relationship with your Ex...He's Now Committed or Seeing the Next, If He No Longer wants you to be his Girlfriend...than he is No Longer Allowed to get the Girlfriend Perks from You!!  He should not be able to have his Cake and eat it too!  Having Sex with your Ex will Not Guarantee that he will make you his Girlfriend again. If he has Moved On with the Next and you're still having Sex with him, the only Message you are Sending is... You're okay with him Building with Someone Else while you Accept the Crumbs..With that being said...I know I want the Entire Entree!!! and So Should You!!!


* If you Feel you Need Some More Guidance with this Situation Check Out SGS Book Club.